Jimmy Chapman, a basketball referee who grew up in Greenville, S.C, is carrying on the refereeing legacy his father started many years ago.
Jimmy's father understood that officials' impact can go much deeper than just calling fouls. Through their relationships, officials can serve as lifelong role models, especially through their children and pass along valuable lessons along the way.
The article "Pleasant Grove Man Has Family Legacy of Officiating" discusses in detail these life lessons Jimmy learned from his father.
Life is one big learning experience and in basketball, as in life, the learning never truly stops.
Jimmy’s dad always made the game interesting for his son and his son’s friends. He let the boys rub elbows with the players and took the time to explain the rules of the game in detail. On long drives home he would talk through the more difficult calls he made and explain why he made the decisions he did.
It’s not all about the money, but seeing that hard work can be rewarding in both your pocket book and your life is certainly inspirational.
Even something as simple as letting Jimmy hold his father’s earnings while he worked made Jimmy feel more involved in the process and showed how hard work can pay off. As Jimmy got older the the money was still there, but the relationships he and his father made in his community and beyond became the real reward.
Respect is universal whether on or off the court.
Jimmy quickly became a favorite with players and spectators alike by making a point to never talk down to either. He took that cue from his father and said it may be the most powerful lesson he carries with him today.
Being humble goes hand in hand with respect.Admitting that perhaps he missed a call and assuring an angry individual that he’ll watch more closely is a great way to diffuse volatile situations.
Building relationships is key.
Both valued the partnership they had with league officials and players. In a game where it can seem like, as a ref, it’s you against the world, building relationships, establishing a common ground and respecting all sides is paramount.
What life lessons are you passing on? Who is your role model as an official?
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Unfortunately neither of my sons have chosen to follow me in my officiating. I have instead spent years training young guys get into the game. I have also spent a lot of time on the internet helping new guys progress.
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